{"id":663,"date":"2020-01-06T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-06T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=663"},"modified":"2022-11-20T08:19:33","modified_gmt":"2022-11-20T14:19:33","slug":"january-6-countless-acts-of-kindness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-6-countless-acts-of-kindness\/","title":{"rendered":"January 6 &#8211; Countless acts of kindness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continuing with Sally Armstrong\u2019s talk, &#8220;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/153\/talk\/50002\/\" target=\"_blank\">The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice<\/a>&#8221; &#8211; about the practice of metta &#8211; and also to balance out the negativity in the news&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sally says,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>We can be very overwhelmed by the dukkha, the suffering, in the world, the negativity. &#8230; where we know every disaster that&#8217;s happening in every part of the planet. &#8230; We can feel the impact of that. &#8230;  What&#8217;s also important to know is there are countless acts of kindness. &#8230; There&#8217;s much goodness, but it doesn&#8217;t make the headlines because it&#8217;s not so dramatic.<\/p><cite>~ Sally Armstrong<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>She shares the story of &#8220;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Norah and Mr. Dan (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cbsnews.com\/news\/this-4-year-old-made-an-unlikely-friend-at-the-grocery-store\/\" target=\"_blank\">Norah and Mr. Dan<\/a>&#8221; as one example of a natural expression of care from a four-year old towards an old man at the grocery store. (If you haven&#8217;t listened to the talk, check out the link for the story.) Sally concludes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>That&#8217;s the possibility of metta, the open heart, the feeling of connection, and wanting other to be happy. Our own happiness and well-being can come out of that external wish, that caring about others. We can train in this capacity.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I shared the following quote on Facebook, and again at the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" label=\"SIMC sit (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/<\/a> sit last week, and Doris shared it again at yesterday&#8217;s <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Sunday morning sit (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/smimsg.wordpress.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Sunday morning<\/a> sit, but it bears repeating:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty, but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember those times and places&#8211;and there are so many&#8211;where people have behaved magnificently, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction. And if we do act, in however small a way, we don\u2019t have to wait for some grand utopian future. The future is an infinite succession of presents, and to live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory.<\/p><cite>~ <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thenation.com\/article\/archive\/optimism-uncertainty\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" label=\"Howard Zinn (opens in a new tab)\">Howard Zinn<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>So in the vein of being hopeful and cultivating energy to act, have you seen this recent video from retired Canadian astronaut, <a href=\"https:\/\/chrishadfield.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Chris Hatfield (opens in a new tab)\">Chris Hatfield<\/a>, <em>An Astronaut&#8217;s Guide to Optimism 2020<\/em>?<br><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Y6woV3encOA (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Y6woV3encOA\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/youtu.be\/Y6woV3encOA<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I propose to dedicate Mondays to sharing this type of news. What do you think? Send me your good news stories to include in upcoming weeks!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Guided meditation<\/em>: Here&#8217;s a 40 minute metta meditation recently led by Vinny Ferraro<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/215\/talk\/57930\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/215\/talk\/57930\/ (opens in a new tab)\">https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/215\/talk\/57930\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feel free to share your reflections or comments below, or by <a href=\"mailto:andrea@grzesina.net\">email<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With warm wishes,<br>Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, Continuing with Sally Armstrong\u2019s talk, &#8220;The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice&#8221; &#8211; about the practice of metta &#8211; and also to balance out the negativity in the news&#8230; Sally says, We can be very overwhelmed by the dukkha, the suffering, in the world, the negativity. &#8230; where we know every disaster that&#8217;s\u2026 <span class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-6-countless-acts-of-kindness\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[199],"tags":[206,214,207,41,113,205],"class_list":["post-663","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jan-2020","tag-chris-hatfield","tag-good-news","tag-howard-zinn","tag-metta","tag-sally-armstrong","tag-vinny-ferraro"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/663","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=663"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/663\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1435,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/663\/revisions\/1435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}