{"id":658,"date":"2020-01-05T03:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-01-05T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=658"},"modified":"2020-01-04T16:24:02","modified_gmt":"2020-01-04T22:24:02","slug":"january-5-sense-of-well-wishing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-5-sense-of-well-wishing\/","title":{"rendered":"January 5 &#8211; Sense of well-wishing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continuing with Sally Armstrong\u2019s talk, &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/153\/talk\/50002\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice (opens in a new tab)\">The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice<\/a>&#8221; &#8211; now turning to the practice of metta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are many ways to translate <em>metta<\/em>: lovingkindness, friendliness, goodwill, benevolence, acceptance, heartfulness. I was first taught this as &#8220;lovingkindness&#8221;, but as Sally mentions,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8220;If we use the term &#8220;lovingkindness&#8221; &#8211; as soon as we put the word &#8220;love&#8221; in there, we can get tripped up a little. We think it has to be grand, or expansive, or immediately unconditional. For most of us, that&#8217;s not the case &#8211; we take these small steps of opening and caring. We have to start where we are.<\/p><cite>~ Sally Armstrong<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>There are different options for cultivating this sense of well-wishing. One of the common practices is to repeat phrases. I&#8217;ve had to learn over time that the phrases are only part of the practice. As Sally explains,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Even as we repeat phrases, which might seem like a mental activity, we want to keep grounded in the body. We use the mindfulness to know what&#8217;s happening. Are we saying the phrases? Is there that intention being cultivated? What are we feeling? How is the breath? How is the body?<\/p><p>We always stay grounded in the body, even as we&#8217;re offering the phrases of metta &#8211; towards ourselves or towards others.<\/p><cite>~ Sally Armstrong<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>There are various traditional phrases. Here are some of the phrases that Kamala suggests in the meditation below. She encourages us to make the phrases our own.<br><em>May I\/you be safe and protected from inner and outer harm.<br>May I\/you be peaceful and happy.<br>May I\/you be healthy and strong.<br>May I\/you be at ease with the conditions of life.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Guided meditation<\/em>: This is the first metta meditation from the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"retreat (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/retreats\/3900\/\" target=\"_blank\">retreat<\/a>, led by Kamala Masters. The first few minutes of the recording go over some basics of the practice. The meditation starts at about 12:45 and ends at about 46:15.<br><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/99\/talk\/49982\/ (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/99\/talk\/49982\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/sr.dharmaseed.org\/teacher\/99\/talk\/49982\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feel free to share your reflections or comments below, or by <a href=\"mailto:andrea@grzesina.net\">email<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With warm wishes,<br>Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, Continuing with Sally Armstrong\u2019s talk, &#8220;The roles of mindfulness, metta and equanimity in our practice&#8221; &#8211; now turning to the practice of metta. There are many ways to translate metta: lovingkindness, friendliness, goodwill, benevolence, acceptance, heartfulness. I was first taught this as &#8220;lovingkindness&#8221;, but as Sally mentions, &#8220;If we use the term &#8220;lovingkindness&#8221; &#8211; as soon\u2026 <span class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-5-sense-of-well-wishing\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[199],"tags":[19,41,113],"class_list":["post-658","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jan-2020","tag-kamala-masters","tag-metta","tag-sally-armstrong"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/658","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=658"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/658\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":662,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/658\/revisions\/662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=658"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=658"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=658"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}