{"id":536,"date":"2019-01-25T04:00:48","date_gmt":"2019-01-25T10:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=536"},"modified":"2019-01-25T21:41:41","modified_gmt":"2019-01-26T03:41:41","slug":"january-25-unshakeable-balance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-25-unshakeable-balance\/","title":{"rendered":"January 25 &#8211; Unshakeable balance"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We now get to dive into the fourth of the <em>brahma&nbsp;vih\u0101ras<\/em>, equanimity. Christina Feldman describes some of the meanings associated with this term:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The Pali\/Sanskrit word [commonly translated as] &#8220;equanimity&#8221; finds a number of different translations that endeavour to capture its meaning: &#8220;to look over,&#8221; &#8220;to be a guardian of,&#8221; to see with patience and as standing in the middle of life with a boundless poise and balance. Some refer to equanimity as a spacious stillness of the heart.<\/p><cite>page 108<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>There&#8217;s a poem that Susie, Jeanne, and others have shared that gives a sense of this quality of equanimity:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>The Little Duck<\/strong><br>by Donald C. Babcock<\/p><p>Now we are ready to look at something pretty special.<br>It is a duck riding the ocean a hundred feet beyond the surf.<br>No, it isn\u2019t a gull.<\/p><p>A gull always has a raucous touch about him.<br>This is some sort of duck, and he cuddles in the swells.<br>He isn\u2019t cold, and he is thinking things over.<\/p><p>There is a great heaving in the Atlantic,<br>And he is a part of it.<br>He looks a little like a mandarin,<\/p><p>Or the Lord Buddha meditating under the Bo tree<br>But he has hardly enough above the eyes to be a philosopher.<br>He has poise, however, which is what philosophers must have.<\/p><p>He can rest while the Atlantic heaves, because he rests in the Atlantic.<\/p><p>Probably he doesn\u2019t know how large the ocean is.<br>And neither do you.<br>But he realizes it.<\/p><p>And what does he do, I ask you. He sits down in it.<br>He reposes in the immediate as if it were infinity \u2013 which it is.<br>That is religion, and the duck has it.<\/p><p>He has made himself a part of the boundless,<br>by easing himself into it just where it touches him.<br>I like the little duck.<\/p><p>He doesn\u2019t know much.<br>But he has religion.<\/p><cite>as provided in <a href=\"https:\/\/stonecreekzencenter.org\/2016\/05\/23\/poems-from-the-may-22-2016-dharma-talk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"https:\/\/stonecreekzencenter.org\/2016\/05\/23\/poems-from-the-may-22-2016-dharma-talk\/ (opens in a new tab)\">https:\/\/stonecreekzencenter.org\/2016\/05\/23\/poems-from-the-may-22-2016-dharma-talk\/<\/a><br>from <em>The New Yorker<\/em>, v.23 no.33, October 4, 1947 , pp.38-9<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Sylvia Boorstein provides some simple but lovely equanimity meditation instructions, having first given an analogy from an old TV sing-a-long show where a band played the melodies while song lyrics would show on the screen with a bouncing ball (think old-school karaoke):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Sit comfortably. Close your eyes. Meet each arriving moment&#8212;each breath, or each mood, each thought, or each idea&#8212;as the next word of the song that needs to get sung. You can choose what line of the score to sing&#8212;breath, mood, thought, idea&#8212;and still hear the others in the background. If you relax, you&#8217;ll be able to say, &#8220;Now this&#8221; and &#8220;Now this&#8221; and &#8220;Well, this is surprise, but&#8212;look!&#8212;I can manage this, too, and just in time to be here for this next experience, now arriving.&#8221; You don&#8217;t need to anticipate. If you fumble a moment, let it go. Sight-read the music. Just do it, now.<\/p><p>Sit for as long as you like. This is Equanimity meditation. It&#8217;s also Mindfulness.<\/p><cite><em><a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"Pay Attention, for Goodness' Sake: The Buddhist Path of Kindness (opens in a new tab)\" href=\"https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/16048\/pay-attention-for-goodness-sake-by-sylvia-boorstein-phd\/9780345448118\/\" target=\"_blank\">Pay Attention, for Goodness&#8217; Sake: The Buddhist Path of Kindness<\/a><\/em>, page 259<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>So whether you want to take inspiration from the little duck, or you want to sing along with the melody of life, remember equanimity won&#8217;t start as unshakeable balance &#8211; it&#8217;s a practice. As Christina says, &#8220;Equanimity is a pathway, a way of being present, and a seed we cultivate, an ongoing journey of investigation.&#8221; (page 112)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Warm wishes,<br>Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, We now get to dive into the fourth of the brahma&nbsp;vih\u0101ras, equanimity. Christina Feldman describes some of the meanings associated with this term: The Pali\/Sanskrit word [commonly translated as] &#8220;equanimity&#8221; finds a number of different translations that endeavour to capture its meaning: &#8220;to look over,&#8221; &#8220;to be a guardian of,&#8221; to see with patience and as\u2026 <span class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-25-unshakeable-balance\/\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[162],"tags":[137,159,20],"class_list":["post-536","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jan-2019","tag-christina-feldman","tag-equanimity","tag-sylvia-boorstein"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/536","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=536"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/536\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":555,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/536\/revisions\/555"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}