{"id":1989,"date":"2024-01-31T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-31T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=1989"},"modified":"2024-01-30T08:49:49","modified_gmt":"2024-01-30T14:49:49","slug":"january-31-is-this-the-path-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-31-is-this-the-path-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"January 31 &#8211; Is this the path of love?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To close our month, a poem from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, who gives us six words to consider our path going forward:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>The Question<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-code\"><code><em>        for Jude Jordan Kalush, who asked the question<\/em><\/code><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p>All day, I replay these words:<br><em>Is this the path of love?<\/em><br>I think of them as I rise, as<br>I wake my children, as I wash dishes,<br>as I drive too close behind the slow<br>blue Subaru, <em>Is this the path of love?<\/em><br>Think of these words as I stand in line<br>at the grocery store,<br>think of them as I sit on the couch<br>with my daughter. Amazing how<br>quickly six words become compass,<br>the new lens through which to see myself<br>in the world. I notice what the question is not.<br>Not, &#8220;Is this right?&#8221; Not,<br>&#8220;Is this wrong?&#8221; It just longs to know<br>how the action of existence<br>links us to the path of love.<br>And is it <em>this<\/em>? Is it <em>this<\/em>? All day,<br>I let myself be led by the question.<br>All day I let myself not be too certain<br>of the answer. <em>Is it this?<\/em><br><em>Is this the path of love?<\/em> I ask<br>as I wait for the next word to come.<\/p>\n<cite><a href=\"https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/2019\/12\/23\/after-she-told-me-the-question-she-asks-herself\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/2019\/12\/23\/after-she-told-me-the-question-she-asks-herself\/<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you for being part of this month-long exploration of the eightfold path. I enjoyed this opportunity to study, reflect, and practice with you, and I hope you found it of benefit as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Special thanks to the teachers and poets who generously post their materials related to their teachings online for us to follow along at our own pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish to extend my gratitude in particular to the following. If you have appreciated this month of offerings, I encourage you to support these teachers and resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Gil Fronsdal with the Insight Meditation Center (IMC).<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.insightmeditationcenter.org\/donate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.insightmeditationcenter.org\/donate\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Audio Dharma, which has recordings of talks by Gil and other teachers at IMC and Insight Retreat Center (IRC).<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/donate\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/donate\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dharma Seed, which has recorded talks and meditations from teachers at many other centers.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/about\/donation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/about\/donation\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, whose poems shine a light on so many of these teachings<br><a href=\"https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Jeanne Corrigal, guiding teacher for the Saskatoon Insight Meditation Community, who provided guidance, advice, and encouragement when I needed direction.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/about\/dana\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/about\/dana\/<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>My dog Pixie, who is a great teacher, support, and patient friend. She was adopted from New Hope Dog Rescue and benefited from their \u201cGuardians of Hope\u201d program.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.newhoperescue.org\/online-donation-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.newhoperescue.org\/online-donation-2\/<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>While many people have contributed towards this month&#8217;s posts, any errors are strictly my own. For whatever harm I may have done, in thought, word, or deed, by way of greed, hatred and delusion, intentionally or unintentionally, I humbly ask your forgiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>May the goodness we have cultivated this month be for the benefit of all beings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also want to offer a special dedication of merit in the loving memory of my dad, Andrew, who passed away in November. Donations to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.heartandstroke.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada<\/a>\u00a0in his memory are also appreciated.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/leaderpost.remembering.ca\/obituary\/andrew-grzesina-1089062385\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/leaderpost.remembering.ca\/obituary\/andrew-grzesina-1089062385<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With good wishes and great appreciation,<br>Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, To close our month, a poem from Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, who gives us six words to consider our path going forward: Thank you for being part of this month-long exploration of the eightfold path. I enjoyed this opportunity to study, reflect, and practice with you, and I hope you found it of benefit as well. 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