{"id":1864,"date":"2024-01-03T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-01-03T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=1864"},"modified":"2024-01-02T23:24:52","modified_gmt":"2024-01-03T05:24:52","slug":"january-3-all-of-our-life-circumstances-are-subject-to-change","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/january-3-all-of-our-life-circumstances-are-subject-to-change\/","title":{"rendered":"January 3 &#8211; All of our life circumstances are subject to change"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In one of his <a href=\"https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/talks\/12338\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/talks\/12338\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">talks<\/a>, Gil says, &#8220;right view is the orientation, the frame of reference, the insight into the changing nature of this life of ours.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He then gives an example, that I often notice in my own thought patterns:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>I might think that I&#8217;m having a lousy day. And the concept of lousy days is an idea that I could repeat to myself and hold on to. And every time I think about the day, I think it&#8217;s lousy. So because my thinking is that way, it can seem like the day is lousy. But if I get more fine tuned, not to the global day, but to the what&#8217;s happening moment by moment, I discover that it&#8217;s not a constant lousy day. I step outside into the sun on a cool day. And it feels really pleasant for a moment or two. I look at the blue sky and it&#8217;s pleasant for a moment too. And then I go back to having a lousy time and thinking about something. If I look at them carefully, that lousy day has a lot to do with my evaluation of the day and my predictions and my fears and my remembering and the way I have critical thinking about something, maybe myself. And to see that those kinds of thoughts are also coming and going and changing all the time.<\/p>\n<cite>Eightfold Path: Right View (2 of 3), October 29, 2020<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/talks\/12338\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/talks\/12338<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>We do that to our days, and to ourselves and each other, as Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer describes so well in this poem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><strong>Never the Same<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes a person wakes<br>believing they are a storm.<br>It\u2019s hard to deny it, what,<br>with all the rain pouring out<br>of the gutters of the mind,<br>all the gusts blowing through,<br>all the squalls, all the gray.<br>But by afternoon, it seems obvious<br>they are a garden about to sprout.<br>By night, it is clear they are a moon\u2014<br>luminous, radiant, faithful.<br>That\u2019s the danger, I suppose,<br>of believing any frame.<br>Let me believe, then, in curiosity,<br>in wonder, in change.<br>Let me trust how essential it is<br>to stumble into the trough<br>of the unknown, marvel how<br>trough becomes wings becomes<br>faith becomes math. Let me trust<br>uncertainty is a sacred path.<\/p>\n<cite>Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer, March 22, 2023<br><a href=\"https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/2023\/03\/22\/never-the-same\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/ahundredfallingveils.com\/2023\/03\/22\/never-the-same\/<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>The invitation today is to become attuned to the changing nature of life, and notice times we might struggle against change, and times we experience ease, even just a little bit, even in the midst of change. Can you &#8220;trust uncertainty is a sacred path&#8221;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With good wishes,<br>Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, In one of his talks, Gil says, &#8220;right view is the orientation, the frame of reference, the insight into the changing nature of this life of ours.&#8221; He then gives an example, that I often notice in my own thought patterns: I might think that I&#8217;m having a lousy day. 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