{"id":1244,"date":"2021-12-31T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-31T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/?p=1244"},"modified":"2023-07-27T16:49:24","modified_gmt":"2023-07-27T22:49:24","slug":"december-31-welcome-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\/december-31-welcome-2\/","title":{"rendered":"December 31 &#8211; Welcome!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will be participating in a New Year&#8217;s Retreat with Susie Harrington this weekend. (<em>Not to worry &#8211; I have posts queued up for the next couple of days! But I won&#8217;t be monitoring emails or messages Friday evening through Sunday afternoon.<\/em>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the things I love about retreats with Susie is the way she starts them. (<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/soundcloud.com\/saskatooninsight\/introduction-to-the-paramis\" target=\"_blank\">You can listen to an example in the first few minutes here.<\/a>) I will borrow from her to start our month together&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So welcome!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Welcome <strong>all<\/strong> of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I hear those words from Susie, I get almost teary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sure many folks know the experience of only allowing certain parts to be present in different circumstances &#8211; when I&#8217;m the daughter, the co-worker, the cyclist, the grocery shopper, the dog caregiver, the meditator, &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Susie invites the question: What is it like to welcome all of you &#8211; to make space for all aspects of yourself? To not have to be any particular way. To include all of yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s our invitation for our time of practice this month, if only for the few minutes you meditate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Susie explains that part of our practice is to cultivate enough of a sense of safety that we can let down our guard with ourselves so that we can completely show up. To develop a kind, curious relationship with what&#8217;s here. And not about fixing, changing, making things different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you get the little voice, like I sometimes do, &#8220;yeah, but&#8230;&#8221; and then list a litany of things that range from personal inconveniences to systemic injustices to world catastrophes. Of course that&#8217;s true too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is suffering. There is happiness. And everything in between.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We start by being aware of the relationship we are having with the present moment &#8211; whatever is arising.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we can be in a wise and compassionate relationship to the present moment, that opens up possibilities. We no longer need to react from our habit patterns and conditioning. Instead, we can have a breath and try to discern &#8211; what&#8217;s the most appropriate thing?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that space, there&#8217;s choice, creativity, possibility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The theme of the retreat talks I&#8217;ll be using for inspiration this month is &#8220;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/retreats\/4282\/\" target=\"_blank\">Finding the Heart of Wisdom<\/a>&#8221; with <a href=\"https:\/\/jill0shepherd-insightmeditation.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Jill Shepherd<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dharma.org\/teacher\/dara-williams\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">DaRa Williams<\/a> &#8211; and I think Susie&#8217;s welcoming is aligned with that spirit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So welcome! All of you is welcome here. I&#8217;m glad you will be part of this month together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All the emails will be archived to this blog:<br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation\">https:\/\/www.grzesina.net\/meditation<\/a><br>Comments are open on the newer posts, and you are invited to share your thoughts and feedback on the posts, or reply by email too. I love to hear from you &#8211; and we learn best when we learn together!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m grateful for the guidance and support from <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.jeannecorrigal.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Jeanne Corrigal<\/a>, the guiding teacher for the <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/wp\/\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/saskatooninsight.com\/<\/a>. I also wish to acknowledge my gratitude to many other special teachers, including <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/desertdharma.org\/retreats\/teachers.html\" target=\"_blank\">Susie Harrington<\/a>, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/rachelmeditates.ca\/\" target=\"_blank\">Rachel Lewis<\/a>, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bcims.org\/teachers#comp-leywb9bm1\" target=\"_blank\">Adrianne Ross<\/a>, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dharma.org\/teacher\/andrea-fella\/\" target=\"_blank\">Andrea Fella<\/a>, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dharma.org\/teacher\/bruni-davila\/\" target=\"_blank\">bruni d\u00e1vila<\/a>, Jill Shepherd, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"http:\/\/www.vincehorn.space\/\" target=\"_blank\">Vince Fakhoury Horn<\/a>, and numerous teachers who generously make their teaching available through <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dharmaseed.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Dharma Seed<\/a>, <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.audiodharma.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Audio Dharma<\/a>, books, and other resources. I\u2019m also fortunate to have admirable friendships with practitioners in various meditation groups &#8211; they inspire me! (Any errors or misunderstandings are my own.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stay tuned for the first email\/post tomorrow!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With warmest wishes,<br>Andrea Grzesina<br>andrea@grzesina.net<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friends, I will be participating in a New Year&#8217;s Retreat with Susie Harrington this weekend. (Not to worry &#8211; I have posts queued up for the next couple of days! But I won&#8217;t be monitoring emails or messages Friday evening through Sunday afternoon.) 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